the age of learning....

At 23 I knew who i was, no expectations, no false beliefs in myself. At 35 I realised I've questioned myself for more than ten years!
It amazes me that people can come into our lives and teach us to question everything we stand for, evereything we are comfortable with, everything we come to terms with about ourselves. It amazes me that people can come into our lives and have such a profound affect on everything we believed to be true about ourselves and never know the difference they have made on our lives. The people we choose to be around can help form us, as human beings, good or bad, they can help create the people we can be today. Without the people we choose to surround us, I believe, we would never know who we truly are. These people serve a purpose but they can't always stay around forever, sometimes, once they have served their purpose, they need to leave just as easily as they entered. As sad as it, this is all just part of a process, they have to leave in order for you to truly understand the learning they were brought to you for.
Just a thought......

Until next time,
the last single 35 yr old woman